Stepping into a new life shaped by trust

MATTHEW JONES

Old and new forms of lighting, IRS Images, 2025

Light has always pushed back darkness, but the way people have lived with light has changed over time. Long before electric bulbs, homes were lit with kerosene lamps. They worked, but they were smoky, messy, and at times unsafe. When electricity arrived, some people resisted it because they could not see the power behind it. Others felt it was too bright or unnecessary. Yet once people accepted it, entire communities changed. Electricity did not simply improve the old system. It offered a completely different way to live.

This picture helps explain how many of us respond when God brings something new into our lives. We may ask for change, but when the change arrives, it often feels uncomfortable. We pray for new chances, and God gives new duties. We ask for peace, and old hurts rise to the surface so that healing can begin. We ask for open doors, and God prepares our hearts before opening anything at all. Growth often feels like shrinking and stretching at the same time. Before God expands our life, He works on our pride. Before He sends us outward, He shapes us inward. Every new season calls for a new version of who we are becoming.

We sometimes pray for joy, and God uses discomfort to expose what needs attention inside us. We ask Him to fix situations around us, and He starts by working on our reactions, habits, and patterns. We pray for purpose, and God sends interruptions that pull us out of our routines. We want His work to fit our old rhythm, but His new work does not sit well with our old ways. There is a pull inside each of us between what feels familiar and what leads to growth. At some point, what is familiar can get in the way of what is fruitful.

This tension is clear in the story found in Mark chapter 2. People questioned why Jesus’ followers did not fast like others. Fasting was not wrong, but the timing was wrong. They were trying to fit a good practice into a moment where it did not belong. Jesus used this to teach that He is the one who defines what is new and when it arrives.

He then gave two images. One was a torn piece of clothing. Sewing new cloth onto an old garment makes the tear worse because the new cloth shrinks. The other picture was of wine skins. New wine was still expanding. Old wine skins were stiff and could not stretch, so they would burst. The lesson was simple: new life from God needs a willing and flexible heart.

Have thine own way, Lord!
Have thine own way!
Thou art the potter,
I am the clay.
Mold me and make me
after thy will,
while I am waiting,
yielded and still.

In these images, “old” does not refer to age but to attitude. Old means unwilling to change. New means willing to be shaped by God. Some people who have lived many years remain open and teachable. Their hearts can stretch. Others, no matter their age, can grow rigid. A rigid spirit cannot hold the fresh work of God because His movement brings expansion. His question to us is simple: If He pours more into us, will we stretch?

Many people can look back and see how God has stretched them through responsibility, challenge, or service. These moments push us toward prayer, toward Scripture, and toward deeper love for others. They form new patterns inside us. When God stretches us, He is not punishing us. He is preparing us.

Jesus does not attach new life to old habits. He gives a new heart and a new spirit to those who receive Him. For anyone who has not placed their trust in Him, the first step is to admit the need for Him, believe in His life, death, and resurrection, and confess Him as Lord. This is how a person becomes able to carry what He wants to give.

For those who already follow Him, there is still a warning. It is possible to walk with Jesus for years and still become rigid if the relationship fades into routine. When prayer becomes an afterthought, the heart grows stiff. Prayer keeps us soft, teachable, and ready. It opens the door for God’s shaping work. It keeps us flexible enough to hold what He wants to pour into our lives.

Practicing simple daily prayer can help with this. A short morning surrender. A pause before reacting. A quiet moment to listen. Praying Scripture. The invitation is the same for all of us: to be willing, flexible, and open. To let God shape us so we can carry what He wants to give.

Therefore if anyone is in Christ, this person is a new creation; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.

2 Corinthians 5:17

Learning to Wait on God’s Timing

FLOYD ROGERS

Sometimes when people pray and ask God for help, they expect an answer right away. But when nothing happens for a long time, they begin to feel uneasy. Because the situation doesn’t change as quickly as they hope, they may try to take control and fix things on their own.

Some believe the saying, “God helps those who help themselves,” but this idea can be misleading. In reality, when we try to force things to happen outside of God’s timing, we often create more problems. Then, we turn to God again. This time we ask Him to fix the trouble we caused.

God doesn’t ask us to take matters into our own hands. Instead, He wants us to trust Him, obey His direction, and be patient as He works in our lives. His way may take longer, but it is always meant for our good.

Wait for the Lord;
Be strong and let your heart take courage;
Yes, wait for the Lord.

Psalm 27:14

Think Before You Act, God’s Bigger Plan

FLOYD ROGERS

When something upsetting happens, it’s easy to respond quickly without thinking. But before reacting, it’s important to pause and ask, “What might God be doing in this situation?” Looking at the bigger picture can help us make better choices.

Many people have ended up in difficult situations because they made decisions out of anger, hurt, or a desire for revenge. These decisions, whether dishonest, immoral, or simply emotional, can lead to long-lasting problems. In moments of frustration, it’s easy to choose what feels right in the moment, but those choices often come with serious consequences.

Instead of acting on impulse, we should take time to consider where our actions might lead. Asking ourselves what God’s purpose might be can help us avoid harm. God’s way is always the better way, even when it’s not the easiest one.

You know this, my beloved brothers and sisters. Now everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for a man’s anger does not bring about the righteousness of God.

James 1:19-20

Finding Strength in Trusting God

FLOYD ROGERS

When life becomes confusing or overwhelming, it’s natural to wonder if God really sees what you’re going through. But the truth is, He cares. He is fully aware of every detail of your situation. Even if you don’t understand why something is happening, God invites you to trust Him through it. Choosing to put your life in His hands doesn’t mean you’ll have all the answers. It means you believe He is able to handle what you can’t.

In difficult times, God may be offering you a chance to experience His strength. This could also be a time for personal growth, a chance to come to know God more closely and understand His ways more deeply. Surrendering your questions and fears can become a step towards a stronger faith.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.

Proverbs 3:5

Making God the Centre of Your Life

FLOYD ROGERS

Have you ever made a clear choice to seek God above everything else? This means more than just believing in Him. I’m asking about coming to Him in every kind of moment, whether things are good or difficult. It’s about asking Him to lead you, to bring calm in times of stress, and to help you understand what He wants for your life.

Seeking God also means being open to what He might show you, even if it reveals something in your life that needs to change. It’s a deep desire to grow closer to Him, to want more than just a basic connection. Believers who follow the Spirit long to know God in a more personal way, not just as Saviour and Lord, but as someone active in the details of their everyday lives.

But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided to you.

Matthew 6:33