Why forgiving yourself is not the same as receiving forgiveness from God

JEFF TURNER

The idea of forgiving yourself has become common in both secular culture and church settings, often presented as a necessary step toward healing and moving forward. Colossians 3:13 is sometimes brought into the conversation, with the logic being that if God forgives us and we are to forgive others, we must also forgive ourselves. But self-forgiveness and receiving God’s forgiveness are two very different things.

Sin is an offence against God and only he has the standing to forgive it. The forgiveness that truly deals with sin comes from God alone, and it is full and complete when it is given. For a believer, the right response to guilt is not to generate forgiveness for themselves but to accept and rest in the forgiveness God has already provided. Continuing to carry guilt after God has forgiven is not humility; it is a failure to receive what he has offered. Once his forgiveness is in hand, there is nothing left to do but live in the freedom of it.

 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous, so that He will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

1 John 1:9

How to know you’re going to heaven, and finding peace after loss

TEXAS GOSPEL VOLUNTEER

Losing someone you love is one of the hardest things a person can go through, but knowing where they are going can bring a peace that is hard to explain. One man who lost his younger brother to illness was able to find that kind of peace because he trusted that his brother had put his faith in Jesus Christ and was now with Jesus. That peace is available to anyone who accepts salvation, because Jesus himself said that those who do so will live, even after death.

So how can a person know for certain that they are going to heaven? It is not about being good enough or doing enough right things. It comes down to giving your life to Jesus Christ and trusting him as your Saviour.

Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life; the one who believes in Me will live, even if he dies,

John 11:25

Where to go when you want to hear the voice of God

JEFF TURNER

Hebrews 12:25 warns believers not to refuse the one who is speaking, and some have used that verse to suggest that God still speaks audibly to people today, perhaps through inner impressions or voices from heaven. But the place where God’s voice is found reliably and truly is in the pages of scripture. That is where he has spoken, and that is where he continues to speak to anyone who reads and listens.

Jude’s letter describes the faith as something that was delivered to believers once and for all, and the close of Revelation contains a firm warning against adding to or taking away from what has been written. The Bible calls itself the word of God, and Hebrews describes that word as living, active, and sharper than any two-edged sword. Waiting for a voice to drop into your mind from outside scripture is not what the Bible describes or encourages. When God speaks to a person, he does so through what he has already said, and what he has said is enough.

All Scripture is inspired by God and beneficial for teaching, for rebuke, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man or woman of God may be fully capable, equipped for every good work

2 Timothy 3:16-17

Lauren Talley brings raw worship and southern gospel grit to new EP, Walls (Part One)

AMY TURNER

When you listen to a Lauren Talley song, you can usually hear it coming, where the polish drops away and something rawer takes over. It’s not a performance trick. It’s the whole point.

“When I step behind a microphone,” she says, “my most important job is to help the listener encounter the presence of God.” That sentence could double as a mission statement for her upcoming EP, Walls (Part One), out August 21 on Horizon Records and available now for pre-save.

Talley has spent years building a career inside Southern Gospel’s tight-knit world, but this project stretches past those borders. Working alongside producer Jason Webb, she folds inspirational, worship and contemporary Christian elements into the genre’s familiar bones, and the result feels less like a genre exercise and more like five different rooms in the same house of faith.

“In Walls (Part One),” she explains, “we can feel Him in the rhythm and soul of ‘Walls,’ and in the high energy of ‘So So Good.’ He shows up in the vulnerability of ‘Mercy’ and ‘Little Faith,’ and we can give Him all of our worship in the awe-inspiring lyrics of ‘Look At The Lamb.'”

That range is the project’s real achievement. “Little Faith” and “Mercy” open quiet, almost confessional, like Talley is singing to one person in a dim room. By the time “Walls” and “So So Good” kick in, the arrangements widen and her voice climbs with them, bold and unguarded. The closer, “Look at the Lamb,” a song she wrote herself, builds toward a full throated finish that feels earned rather than performed.

The lyrics shift moods just as freely, but two threads hold the whole EP together: power and grace. On the title track, she sings of a God who flattens every obstacle in His path: “He ain’t never met a wall / That He couldn’t tear down / Watch it crumbling to the ground.” On “Mercy,” the tone turns personal and grateful, a testimony of survival rather than triumph: “Now I’m alive to tell the story / How I’ve overcome / It’s His goodness and mercy / And the power of His blood.”
For Talley, the variety in sound is never the destination, just the vehicle. “Throughout every song I sing,” she says, “regardless of style, I want to take the listener on a ride through all the times we spend with the Lord, and point all the focus back to Him.”

That instinct has guided her since long before she had a record deal. Lauren Talley sang her first solo at age two, toddling onto a stage mid-concert to announce, in toddler logic, that she wanted to “thing.” She grew up to make good on that announcement as part of her family group, The Talleys, lending lead vocals to eleven number one hits and helping the group take home a 2015 Dove Award for “Hidden Heroes.”

Her solo catalogue runs seven albums deep, including the rare move of releasing two records the same day in 2019: Glorious God: Songs of Worship and Wonder and Loudest Praise: Hymns of Mercy, Love and Grace. Her 2017 record, The Gospel, hit number one on Billboard’s Southern Gospel chart, and she’s also written Songs in the Night, a devotional book paired with her 2010 album of the same name. She’s a regular presence on Gaither Homecoming videos and concerts, RFD-TV’s The Music City Show, and In Touch with Dr. Charles Stanley, and in 2014 John Wesley University awarded her an honorary doctorate in Worship Arts.

Off the road, Talley works as a studio background vocalist and producer, and mentors emerging singers as a voice and performance coach. And when she’s not doing any of that, she’s cheering on the Tennessee Volunteers, sipping sweet tea, and making time to laugh with the people closest to her.

Walls (Part One) feels like the natural next step in that long arc: an artist who has spent her whole life pointing toward something bigger than herself, now doing it with a wider musical vocabulary than ever. Pre-save the EP ahead of its August 21 release.

Finding peace when life falls apart

JEFF TURNER

There is not a person alive who has escaped seasons of doubt, confusion, and fear. Life, by its very nature, brings hardship to every door. And yet, Scripture does not look away from that reality. It meets us in the middle of it. The Bible is honest about the weight of adversity, while at the same time pointing us to a God who has made a remarkable promise: He will never leave us, never walk away, never abandon us to face our troubles alone (Hebrews 13:5-6). When fear comes, and it will come, the right response is to bring it straight to God, speaking our worries plainly and then stepping forward in faith, trusting that He is already at work, weaving something purposeful out of what feels like chaos (Psalms 56:3-4).

Consider what God may be doing in the very hardship you are carrying today. Difficult seasons are not wasted in His hands. Adversity becomes a refining fire, burning away what is weak in our faith and leaving something more genuine in its place. It is worth pausing to ask, honestly, whether the trial you are walking through might be one God is allowing to draw you closer to Himself. He is sovereign over all things, including the hard and confusing chapters of your personal story. His promise is not that life will be easy, but that He is working on your behalf, shaping something good, something you may never have seen coming. Trust Him with it.

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.

Romans 8:28