JEFF TURNER
Imagine being among the large crowds that followed Jesus every day, listening to his teachings and watching him heal people. Perhaps you were even thinking about becoming his disciple. Then, one day, Jesus says to you and the others, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple”. These are strong words, and it makes you wonder what Jesus meant when he told people they needed to hate their families.
The word “hate” here should be understood in terms of contrast. A similar statement in Matthew 10:37 gives us the key to understanding this difficult idea. The “hatred” Jesus is talking about is actually a lesser love. Jesus was calling his followers to have such a complete devotion and commitment to him that their attachment to everything else, including their families and even their own lives, would seem like hatred in comparison. In other words, Jesus was saying that your family might try to stop you from following him because it could lead to alienation from them. Your possessions might also prevent you, as following Jesus could mean losing them, along with your status and even your life through persecution.
Jesus was emphasizing how important it is to receive the salvation he offers, making it clear that it should be more important than anything else you have or any relationship you possess. He still calls for this same total commitment at any cost.
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