Honoring Parents is a Lifelong Responsibility

AMY TURNER

The fifth commandment, found in Exodus 20:12, tells us to honour our father and mother so that we may enjoy a long life in the land God has given us. This command does not depend on whether our parents are perfect—because no one has perfect parents. Still, God calls us to show them honour.

As we grow up and leave our parents’ house, we are no longer required to obey them in every matter. However, respect should never end. To honour parents means treating them with dignity, speaking kindly, and never mocking or insulting them. It includes showing them care and trying to bring good into their lives.

Even when our parents are elderly and may live in a care home, we should continue to visit and value them. This is not just a nice gesture—it is our duty as their children. Honouring our parents is a lifelong responsibility that pleases God.