JEFF TURNER

The Bible teaches that controlling our speech is a great challenge. James 3:8 tells us no one can completely tame the tongue because it is restless and filled with harmful potential. This warning is not an exaggeration. When we think about the pain, deceit, and broken trust caused by words, we realize their true power.

Like a fire, words can spread destruction. A single harmful statement can ruin relationships, create division, and plant seeds of doubt. However, James does not say that controlling speech is impossible. Instead, he highlights that our words are a reflection of our hearts. Jesus also taught this truth—what we say comes from what is within us. If our hearts are pure, our speech will be uplifting and kind. If our hearts hold bitterness, our words will show it.

The key to guiding our speech lies in guarding our hearts. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” By keeping our hearts filled with truth, love, and wisdom, we ensure that our words bring healing instead of harm.